Have you wondered why men stop chasing after showing initial interest and enthusiasm? Matthew Hussey, a dating coach and relationship expert explains how to keep your relationship exciting and how to keep the spark of attraction alive.
Keeping the Spark Alive
In the beginning of the relationship there is always the chase and it’s very exciting. When you settle into a relationship and time passes, how do you keep that spark of excitement that you felt at the beginning alive?
There’s Always Room for Improvement
Always remember that even though you are in a relationship, you should be continuously looking to invest in your partner. The idea that you are in a relationship and nothing will ever change is an illusion. The truth is that either person could leave at any time. You need to keep investing in the relationship in order to make it great, to make it a relationship you both want to be in. Look to yourself to lead the charge. Subtly communicate the importance and desire to keep improving the relationship and that you are willing to lead the way but that you also expect it from him.
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Never Lose Your Fire
Show that you are continuously growing. Learning new skills, enjoying the things you love, having passion for life is inspiring. It becomes infectious and your man will want it for himself as well. Never stop doing all of the things that made you attractive in the first place. Don’t lose the things that make you great. Never lose sight of your joys, and passions.
Experience life to the fullest. Make sure you take the time to be happy and attractive to yourself and for yourself, not just for him. Maintain your strength and confidence so that you feel good about yourself. He will be attracted to how great you feel about yourself. He will feel like you are continuing to choose him, not that you are with him because you need him to fulfill you. This doesn’t mean never compromising, it means finding balance and keeping your fire.
About Matthew Hussey
Matthew Hussey, speaker and New York Times Bestselling author, serves as a matchmaker on “Ready for Love,” NBC’s innovative and dramatic new relationship show about making real connections.
Through his online programs, viral internet broadcasts, sell-out seminars, NYT Bestselling book, and his roster of private clients, he has been able to pass on his insights and strategies to countless people. 50,000 women have attended his live events and he has reached over 10 million online. Hussey is the new international guru of the dating and relationship-coaching scene.
To know more about Matthew Hussey, visit his website www.howtogettheguy.com.