Is your man attracted to other women? In this video, Matthew Hussey a dating coach and relationship expert shares his advice on how to react and what you should consider when your man expresses an attraction to other women.
So he thinks someone else is hot?
In any relationship, new or old, it always stings when you find out your man is attracted to, or thinks someone else is “hot.” The idea that your partner could be attracted to someone else is a sensitive subject. Before you let hurt and jealousy cloud your judgement, you need to take a moment and consider a few things.
Attraction comes in many forms
There are different types of attraction. Platonic attraction, feelings of admiration or the attraction that comes from finding a kindred spirit. Not all attraction is physical. Knowledge, passion, and confidence all can be very attractive features, even in people of the same sex. The topic becomes sensitive when considering a sexual attraction. If you find that your partner has a sexual attraction towards another person there is only one factor that really matters.
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The only thing that matters
Who is your man faithful and loyal to? Who does he come home to at the end of the day? Who does he choose? The only factor that bears any consideration is who your partner chooses. Who he is attracted to has no reflection on his loyalty. The real heart of any relationship are the choices people make. If your man chooses you, this is where the real romance and significance lies. If you are his first choice, who he has an attraction to really has little importance to your relationship. If you feel stirrings of jealousy in finding out your man finds another woman “hot”, use it as a reminder of how much you desire your man and how much you are attracted to him.
When to let go
Every person can be attracted to someone else. Any person can look at any number of people and see that there is the possibility for an attraction. People get primal urges. We are only human. You, just like your partner, can also experience similar attractions. But so long as you choose each other, every day, it doesn’t really matter.
If your man has chosen you, let go of the stirrings of jealous and the sting of hurt. However, the moment your man decides to choose someone else is the time when you should question your relationship. When he stops choosing you and decides to choose another woman, he is not the right man for you, even if you love him and think he is an awesome catch.
About Matthew Hussey
Matthew Hussey, speaker and New York Times Bestselling author, serves as a matchmaker on “Ready for Love,” NBC’s innovative and dramatic new relationship show about making real connections.
Through his online programs, viral internet broadcasts, sell-out seminars, NYT Bestselling book, and his roster of private clients, he has been able to pass on his insights and strategies to countless people. 50,000 women have attended his live events and he has reached over 10 million online. Hussey is the new international guru of the dating and relationship-coaching scene.
To know more about Matthew Hussey, visit his website www.howtogettheguy.com.