In this video, breakup guru and author of the Ex Factor Guide program, Brad Browning, shares the perfect text message to send your ex in the wake of a breakup. Texting is one of the best ways to communicate to your ex because it’s non-intrusive and you have all the time in the world to think about what to say that won’t make him feel like you’re prying and prodding at him in every turn.
First, some ground rules…
But before you send your ex this mystery text, you have to psychologically prime him first. You just can’t send this text anytime you want and definitely not right after a breakup when emotions still run high.
You first need to bring your ex back to his emotional neutral or that state where he no longer feels any of the negative emotions he felt for you right after the breakup – sadness, anger, unattracted. You can usually do this by going into a 30-day or so of “no contact” period, where you cut of all communication with your ex.
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“Good memory” text message
After engaging in no contact with your ex for the last month or so, send him a text that incites good memories. A perfect example would be something along the lines of: “What was the name of that restaurant we went to on Cook St.? The one with the amazing patio that overlooks the ocean? I wanna take a friend there.”
Obviously you need to tailor-fit this to your specific situation but this kind of text can do wonders for a number of reasons. For one, it forces your ex to remember a happy time in your relationship. For another, you are asking him a genuine question – it’s not like you’re telling him you miss him or that you want him back – so it’s pretty safe grounds for him to trod.
Another reason this text is quite effective is because it might provoke a bit of jealousy. By adding, “I wanna take a friend there”, you are making him wonder who this friend is and if you’re dating already.
The intimacy text is the kind of text that will get your ex to chase you. But remember, you need to be really careful about this one. A good example of this type of text is this: “I miss the way your cologne left a subtle scent on my pillow”.
See why it’s something you should only send after you have properly primed your ex? Send it too early and he’ll think you’re up for just a booty call. Or worse, it might turn him off completely. But when sent at the right time, it will make sparks fly like crazy.
About Brad Browning
Brad Browning is a relationship coach and breakup expert from Vancouver, Canada. For the past decade, Brad has worked with thousands of men and women around the world, helping to reverse breakups and mend broken relationships.
Brad is author of the best-selling Ex Factor Guide program, which teaches readers how to get their ex back. He also offers personal coaching to a limited number of clients, guiding them through the process of winning back an ex or recovering from a difficult breakup.
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